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Can anyone recommend a resource on chanting mantras properly? I'm just starting and I haven't been able to get a good rhythm between the chants and my breathing. I'm left feeling rushed or breathless if I attempt to emulate the low, continuous stream that I've heard monks doing.
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Dubai.
Chances are that you have seen a photograph of this hotel from the outside. This is a view from the ground floor, looking up toward the elaborate fountains and some of the many floors inside the Burj Al Arab-- the only "seven star" hotel in the world.
We had a chance to make a layover in Dubai (UAE) and we took advantage of it. The hotel is closed to casual visitors unless you make reservations to eat there. We opted for an evening tea with cute little sandwiches. Afterwards we stopped at the information desk and asked for a tour.
They took us to see one of their most luxurious rooms. It had two floors and several large bathrooms and bedrooms. And the view was simply amazing. Some day I would like to stay at the hotel itself, but I will have to start saving my pennies as rates start around one thousand USD a night! Maybe for my 40th birthday (hint hint). . .
What is the relationship between the brain and the mind? Can chemicals in the brain give rise to varying mental states? Are our habits of mind somehow encoded in our dna, or passed down from our parents? Or is the mind something non-physical and therefore independent of physical causes? I know the Buddhist viewpoints on this, but this community isn't really a Buddhist community anymore, is it? It's much more open to varying ideas, but the one thing we all have in common is the quest for truth, so this community can still be useful if we can come together and help each other in our learning. Then it doesn't matter if we call ourself a Buddhist or not, for what's important is the truth and the way to peace.
So I'm interested in any logical or experiential viewpoints on this, and I hope we can try to learn together rather than fight each other. Usually we have the motivation to drive our point across, but isn't it better to have the motivation to learn from each other instead? I am as guilty as anyone else here; I'm an addictive debater, I confess. And please try to limit the links you post, and answer from your own mind. People don't tend to bother reading the massive text from links anyway.
So I'm interested in any logical or experiential viewpoints on this, and I hope we can try to learn together rather than fight each other. Usually we have the motivation to drive our point across, but isn't it better to have the motivation to learn from each other instead? I am as guilty as anyone else here; I'm an addictive debater, I confess. And please try to limit the links you post, and answer from your own mind. People don't tend to bother reading the massive text from links anyway.
We've made some additions and improvements to Notes!
The Notes feature has been added to two action-taking pages:
Other changes:
The Notes feature has been added to two action-taking pages:
- You can now add a Note directly on the Add a friend page - handy if you'd like to mark down where you met them or another name you know them by!
- On the Ban and unban users page (under Account -> Privacy) you can now add a Note, including to a group of users all banned at the same time (so that next year you won't need to ask yourself "hey, why did I ban these guys?")
Other changes:
- When you're viewing your existing Notes they're grayed out; click in a field to activate it to change the text (this page can be found from the header by using Profile -> Manage Notes)
- Changes to editing:
- When you're going to create a new Note but one already exists, you'll get a warning that you're editing an existing Note
- You can now delete a note from the "Edit note" pop-up in the hover menu
- You can now delete notes for multiple selected users on the Manage notes page
- When you change Notes on "Ban|unban users" page, they can be edited and saved with "Save Changes" button
How do people deal with depression? I don't know how anymore, it seems.
Hello everyone !! I am relatively new to this group and have been interested in Buddhism for many years. There are many aspects of it that appeal to me in terms of self-responsibility and how that relates to change. I am also interested in the "past and future lives" aspect of Buddhism and how things we may have said or done before impact our relationships now.
The biggest hurdle that I am working on at this time involves my in-laws. My sister in law and her husband brother in law and his wife and my father and mother in law are all wealthy. That in and of itself does nothing for me. I have no interest in wealth materially. I would like most of us like to be financially comfortable and am working to that end by going back to college at 38 and at some point would like to pursue my Bachelor's degree.
My husband and I are what are considered to be "the poor relations". We have both struggled at times with unemployment and underemployment. I have been unemployed now for 14 months and am very actively pursing job leads as I go to school. I am realistic enough to know I will need to do both. We are constantly reminded of his past mistakes regarding his education including a runup student loan which he is now paying back. Sometimes I really wish they understood what the economy and unemployment is REALLY like in the real world we live in and not their golden bubble.
Conincidentally, we get emails all the time from his sister talking about their life they live in London and her husband just got promoted and while she has recently been unemployed, she was out of work for all of a week and ended up with a four month severence to pocket for her trouble. I feel at least metaphorically this is a slap in the face and while I realize she is proud of him and I have no envy of his high position, I am envious because he HAS a job.
I have been chanting for awhle and reading up on what the Buddha has to say about anger and peace of mind. I am human after all however and I want to overcome this hurdle.
The biggest hurdle that I am working on at this time involves my in-laws. My sister in law and her husband brother in law and his wife and my father and mother in law are all wealthy. That in and of itself does nothing for me. I have no interest in wealth materially. I would like most of us like to be financially comfortable and am working to that end by going back to college at 38 and at some point would like to pursue my Bachelor's degree.
My husband and I are what are considered to be "the poor relations". We have both struggled at times with unemployment and underemployment. I have been unemployed now for 14 months and am very actively pursing job leads as I go to school. I am realistic enough to know I will need to do both. We are constantly reminded of his past mistakes regarding his education including a runup student loan which he is now paying back. Sometimes I really wish they understood what the economy and unemployment is REALLY like in the real world we live in and not their golden bubble.
Conincidentally, we get emails all the time from his sister talking about their life they live in London and her husband just got promoted and while she has recently been unemployed, she was out of work for all of a week and ended up with a four month severence to pocket for her trouble. I feel at least metaphorically this is a slap in the face and while I realize she is proud of him and I have no envy of his high position, I am envious because he HAS a job.
I have been chanting for awhle and reading up on what the Buddha has to say about anger and peace of mind. I am human after all however and I want to overcome this hurdle.
- Mood:
contemplative

Shikoku, Japan.
A flower at one of the Bangai temples on the 88 temple pilgrimage of Shikoku. The Bangai are an optional twenty temples for the pilgrimage as well as a pilgrimage completely on their own. Some contain more of a connection to Kobo Daishi (the founder of Shingon Buddhism and mythical creator of the pilgrimage) so it is a wonder they are not part of the modern pilgrimage (reading between the lines brings you to politics).
I am very proud of this photograph. I think it is beautiful.
I've had this cold which seems a bit more tenacious than what I've had in the past and feel feverish although no measurable fever. So I went to a doctor, the first in over 12 years. The last time I was about go embark on cross country holiday driving trip and didn't want to head out and turn out to be seriously sick. Nothing but my first prostate exam and clean bill of health. This time it is a little different: "Have you heard of Claritin? Try something more than generic benadryl clone. And keep drinking lots of herbal teas."
Oh, plus, since I am of an age now, they have scheduled me for a series of tests that they think people over 50 should be having.
At least now I've got referral to surgeon to get my hernia taken care of. Near 2 years since it first tore at me.
Oh, plus, since I am of an age now, they have scheduled me for a series of tests that they think people over 50 should be having.
At least now I've got referral to surgeon to get my hernia taken care of. Near 2 years since it first tore at me.
Hello! I decided to type up this part of the book The Only Dance There Is by Ram Dass. This is the beginning of the section titled "Love as a State of Being." It's absolutely wonderful. I feel comfortable crediting my happy relationship with my boyfriend to this.
Love as a State of Being
"If a Western man were to become a fully enlightened being what would happen to his human relationships, particularly love? Let me start with the word "love" for a moment. I think there is a transformation that goes on in one's conception of the term "love." And I think one changes from seeing it as a verb, to seeing it as a state of being. And you move much more toward what would be called Christ-love, that is, the state of being where one "is" love. One is like a light that emits, and one is a loving being. Consciousness and energy are an identity, as I said last night, and similarly with those identities is the term love. That is, that love and consciousness are one and the same thing. So that as you get into a higher state of consciousness you come closer to being in love. That doesn't mean in interpersonal love. It means being- love. Now if you and I love, or fall into love and I say, "She really turns me on. I love her," from this model what I see is happening is that I'm saying, "You are a . . . ," in the imprinting literature, "You are a superordinate key stimulus that is eliciting an innate response mechanism. You're releasing an innate response mechanism." Or I could say it in a more general sense, saying that, "You're turning me on." And you're turning me on to a place inside myself that is love. So I am experiencing what it means to "be in love." And I'm saying I am in love with you. I am in love with my connection to the place in me that is love, in the way I would now say it in this Western framework. Now to keep working with this I would say that as you are making love and getting totally into interpenetration as much as your bodies would allow and your thoughts and feelings would often allow and still feel that there was a separateness. And it is interesting that as long as you are under the illusion that what you are loving is "out there," you will always experience that separateness.
It is only when you being to understand that if you and I are truly in love, if I go to the place in me that is love and you go to the place in you that is love, we are "together" in Love. We start to understand that what love means is that we are sharing a common state together. That state exists in you and it exists in me. Now the enlightened being- what happens to him is that he changes the nature of his love object from a specific love object to it all, finally. You would say that an enlightened being is totally in love with the universe, in the sense that everything in the universe turns him on to that place in himself where he is love and consciousness. So I would say that an interpersonal relationship that has any qualities of possessiveness in it, or ego drama of any kind, certainly undergoes changes as the nature of consciousness changes. And at the same moment I would say that as a person becomes more conscious, he understands that he has certain karmic commitments, that is, existing contracts which may be with parents, it may be with a husband or wife, or it may be with children- and that he cannot rid himself from these without creating a karmic cost- without leaving behind him some uncooked seeds that he's running away from.
The game of enlightenment starts from exactly where you are at this moment, and therefore, if you have an existing social-emotional-sexual contract with another human being, that's where it starts. To say, "Well, I've got to go do my work on myself. I can't afford you any more" leaves a ripping which ultimately you've got to rectify. There's no doubt about it. You've got to work from where you are now. You just can't walk away from anything, any part of your life. You've got to bring it all into harmony at every new level.
. . . ."
Love as a State of Being
It is only when you being to understand that if you and I are truly in love, if I go to the place in me that is love and you go to the place in you that is love, we are "together" in Love. We start to understand that what love means is that we are sharing a common state together. That state exists in you and it exists in me. Now the enlightened being- what happens to him is that he changes the nature of his love object from a specific love object to it all, finally. You would say that an enlightened being is totally in love with the universe, in the sense that everything in the universe turns him on to that place in himself where he is love and consciousness. So I would say that an interpersonal relationship that has any qualities of possessiveness in it, or ego drama of any kind, certainly undergoes changes as the nature of consciousness changes. And at the same moment I would say that as a person becomes more conscious, he understands that he has certain karmic commitments, that is, existing contracts which may be with parents, it may be with a husband or wife, or it may be with children- and that he cannot rid himself from these without creating a karmic cost- without leaving behind him some uncooked seeds that he's running away from.
The game of enlightenment starts from exactly where you are at this moment, and therefore, if you have an existing social-emotional-sexual contract with another human being, that's where it starts. To say, "Well, I've got to go do my work on myself. I can't afford you any more" leaves a ripping which ultimately you've got to rectify. There's no doubt about it. You've got to work from where you are now. You just can't walk away from anything, any part of your life. You've got to bring it all into harmony at every new level.
. . . ."
OK, guys. Seriously, I'm a troll. I know I'm good at what I do, but damn. There's no need to take me this seriously.
Studying texts and stiff meditation can make you lose your Original Mind.
A solitary tune by a fisherman, though, can be an invaluable treasure.
Dusk rain on the river, the moon peeking in and out of the clouds;
Elegant beyond words, he chants his songs night after night.
Zen Master Ikkyu Sojun.
1394 - 1481



